I was talking to a friend the other day and she was telling me about how the guy she's going out with isnt the slightest bit romantic. He's never intimate in public, never gives her a hug when she is in need of one, doesn't realise that an intimate caress, the slightest warm touch says a thousand words, and does wonders to a girl's heart.
As Malaysian's say...so how ah?
Listening to her made me realise how many men fail to understand that girls notice everything.
They notice the time you opened the door and let only let yourself in, they notice when you walked down the stairs alone without her, the time you gulped down your food without letting her decline your offer. The time you let go of her hand when she was scared. When she looked into your eyes, and you looked away to watch the football match. She just needed a second. The time when all her friends were talking about how sweet their guy was and she sat there and smiled, trying to think up something, because her guy is sweet, he does think of her, he is considerate, she wracks her brain and can think of nothing. He does...doesn't he?
Did he realise that she was sad, did he at least realise that she was unhappy, did he realise that he was becoming a self-centered, inconsiderate excuse my language SOaB?
She said that though intamacy means alot to her, and she is withholding her sadness, and disappointment. She continues to silently wish that he would be the prince charming that she can see in his eyes.
There's nothing much I can say about this topic, prehaps he's just not that type of guy. Perhaps he's not who you're looking for. Perhaps you just need to tell him what you want, what you need and what will make you happy.
Perhaps it's not that hard to be a little romantic once in awhile.
echez
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