So Be It

I hate it when push comes to shove, and we come to find ourselves saying things like "so be it".

Twice, twice in my life, I have spoken those words, "so be it", and everytime I look back, I look back in awe.

There is never a good reason, never an appropriate time to say those words. No one ever means it when they say, so be it.

But sometimes it just doesnt matter anymore. The arrogance and ego that we posses lead us to prematurely end relationships of whichever degree, because of simple, unreasonable words like "fine!" and "so be it".

In life, sometimes people just have to take a step back, and give it a good look. You'll find that so be it just doesnt cut it. Many a time after a couple days, people start to reflect and regret, the rest is just self justification.

I didnt need that person in my life anyways. They were being too much, and they deserve it, or perhaps you guys werent meant to be friends anyway. All of these things we tell ourselves because we are too arrogant and proud to just let go of those words.

I'm not saying that I dont do things like that. I do, more often than I would like to. It's pretty stupid when I take a look back and realise how many more important people I could have had in my life had I just taken a bite to the bullet, let some things go.

But like we all say, that's life!

In my lifetime strive to be the perfect person, faults included, there is much to learn. much to overcome.